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  • When the Chaos Settles Into Your Bones

    When the Chaos Settles Into Your Bones

    A week of exhaustion, renovation chaos, long workdays, and learning when to slow down. From Monday mayhem to quiet moments of relief, this is a reflection on mental overload, resilience, and finding stillness when the noise finally fades.

    The Quill and Claws Blog

    December 15, 2025
    The Cat’s Quill
    #SubsribeToQuillandClawsBlog, Cozy reflections, emotional wellness, intentional living, life, mental exhaustion, Mental Health, quiet life, slow living, weekly reflections, writing
  • Thanksgiving: A Beautiful Mess of Chaos, Coffee and Glitter

    Thanksgiving: A Beautiful Mess of Chaos, Coffee and Glitter

    This Thanksgiving was equal parts cozy and chaotic—from a sleepy North Carolina town to a house full of warmth, noise, and unforgettable family moments. Between road-trip coffee, energetic kids, good food, and one boldly rude stranger, the holiday was anything but boring. Here’s a heartfelt, humorous recap of a perfectly imperfect Thanksgiving.

    The Quill and Claws Blog

    December 3, 2025
    The Cat’s Quill
    #SubsribeToQuillandClawsBlog, Family holiday travel, Holiday Chaos and humor, Thanksgivingrecap, The Cat’s Quill
  • Taking a Cozy Thanksgiving Pause

    Taking a Cozy Thanksgiving Pause

    Hi everyone! I’m writing with a quick update: I won’t be publishing a new post this week. I’m traveling for Thanksgiving and choosing rest instead of writing from a rushed or tired place. 🍂 Next week, I’ll be back with a warm little Thanksgiving recap, a few moments that surprised me, and whatever reflections follow…

    The Quill and Claws Blog

    November 25, 2025
    The Cat’s Quill, The Quill Nook News
    #SubsribeToQuillandClawsBlog, autumn vibes, cozy moments, Cozy reflections, quiet life blog, slow living, small town life, Thanksgiving Pause
  • Am I the Problem?

    Am I the Problem?

    “It’s a terrifying thing to wonder if you’re the villain in your own story.” Quill Have you ever realized there’s an odd silence that falls right after something goes south? There’s one question that’s been clinging to the back of my mind like a leech. “Am I the problem?”  No curiosity. No reflection. Just Accusatory.…

    The Quill and Claws Blog

    November 19, 2025
    The Cat’s Quill
    #SubsribeToQuillandClawsBlog, accountability, Emotional Healing, inner work, Mental Health, Personal Growth, raw honesty, relationships, Self Reflection, Self-awareness, self-blame, The Cat’s Quill, thequillandclawsblog, trauma recovery, writing
  • Overcoming Inexperience in Dating: A Candid Reflection

    Overcoming Inexperience in Dating: A Candid Reflection

    I want to date.  There–it’s out in the open.  And I immediately want to book a ticket to Timbuktu and pretend I never admitted that out loud.  The truth is I’m a young adult and dating feels…terrifying.  Not in the “Someone might murder me” kind of way (though honestly, have you seen the world we…

    The Quill and Claws Blog

    November 12, 2025
    The Cat’s Quill
    #SubsribeToQuillandClawsBlog, adult virgin experience, dating anxiety, emotional vulnerability, fear of dating, fear of intimacy, fear of rejection, honest dating stories, introvert dating struggles, late bloomer dating, learning to love yourself, modern dating problems, relationship insecurity, self-worth in dating, The Cat’s Quill
  • The Pain of being a Backup Friend

    The Pain of being a Backup Friend

    “It hurts differently when you realize you’re not the first call, just the convenient one.” Quill Have you ever noticed how your phone only seems to ring after someone’s original plan fall through? I’m very familiar with the— Are you busy? text— sent ten minutes before needing to be somewhere. I don’t know if that’s…

    The Quill and Claws Blog

    November 5, 2025
    The Cat’s Quill
    adult friendships, boundaries and healing, emotional fatigue, emotional labor, feeling like a backup plan, healing process, onesided friendships, Personal Growth, poetic prose, quiet realizations, Quill and Claws, self worth
  • The Apology I Never Got, and the One I Gave Myself

    The Apology I Never Got, and the One I Gave Myself

    “Some silences feel heavier than words. Some goodbyes never quite finish saying themselves.” Quill Today, I have been asking myself what to post about and truly I was torn between two topics. Mainly because each one has their own kind of “heaviness” that can be difficult for people to discuss. After much debate, I decided…

    The Quill and Claws Blog

    October 29, 2025
    The Cat’s Quill
    #SubsribeToQuillandClawsBlog, cozy-introspection, emotional-honesty, grief, healing-after-loss, reflective-writiing, self-forgiveness, writing-through-grief
  • Intelligent Idiots: Surviving the Confidently Wrong at Work

    Intelligent Idiots: Surviving the Confidently Wrong at Work

    Do you ever just look at someone and think, “Man.. this has got  the most intelligent idiot I have ever had the displeasure to work with?” Don’t get me wrong–I’m not saying I’m some genius myself. Math and I have a complex relationship, and spelling has a habit of reminding me I’m not as clever…

    The Quill and Claws Blog

    October 22, 2025
    The Cat’s Quill
    Confidently Wrong People, Fake it till you make it, Intelligent idiots, The Cat’s Quill, Workplace Humor, Workplace Stories
  • Social Links Update!

    Hi everyone! Quill here with a quick update! I’m in the process of updating my social media accounts and their links! This is to insure that you guys can find me easily and without hassle! The links and accounts should be correct in this weeks post! Keep an eye out on Wednesday at 11 AM…

    The Quill and Claws Blog

    October 21, 2025
    The Quill Nook News
  • The Warmth Within the Cold

    The Warmth Within the Cold

    Exploring the warmth that lingers after the cold — a reflection on stillness, belonging, and the quiet gifts of winter.

    The Quill and Claws Blog

    October 15, 2025
    The Cat’s Quill
    belonging, comfort, mindfullness, reflection, stillness, The Cat’s Quill, winter
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